Are you in a new realtionship? Have you gotten to the point where you want to settle down with a person you are involved with? Then I suggest you do your homework and research the background of the person you are going to consider spending your life with or simply just dating on a constant basis. Why? That should seem obvious but for starters it could save your life and a lot of money and hard ache. I have had so many clients that hire me to catch a cheating spouse only to find out that if they looked into the original background of the person they were involved with, married too, and or dating it would have saved them a lot of hardache. Remember the obvious is not just criminal records but to also review civil records such as a previous divorce. Why? In many divorce proceedings you will find allegations of cheating, domestic abuse, substance abuse, child abuse, and financial problems. All these are important facts to consider because for starters if your possible significant other has cheated in the past they will again on YOU. In addition, any possible substance abuse should be taken seriously and not thought to be an issue resolved. I have investigated cases in which a client never knew that there significant other had a drug problem or issues of suicide. They simply could had found the information with a background check. Another important aspect is that person’s financial background. How many times have I heard stories of people overstating financial status only to gain access into the life of a successful party’s financial prowess. So what do do know that I have your attention? For starters you could consider hiring a private investigator with the proper credintials who has done these types of investigations. If you decide to go at it alone. The following is a site with a world of information that will lead you to look at every individual state’s needed information: (www.crimetime.com) click on free searches and then follow up with whatever your looking for. Remember, divorce records are public records as are criminal records and a simple visit to the clerk of the court may help you in your quest to gain vital information. About a few years ago I notice a site with pictures of parties who had cheated on http://dontdatehimgirl.com/home/ I don’t warrant all the information posted but it may assist you in your quest for information.
Mon Sep 1st 2008 at 2:31pm EDT